Sunday, November 30, 2014

WOMEN ONLY: Finding the right man based on age bracket

Got Some tips from a friend for the ladies looking for the right man, but i believe you are to make your man right for you and don;t expect to meet a perfect man. She sent in this and i decided to post it as usual.So just check the age bracket you wish to pick.
 Please note that i got this from a lady, so the guys don't skin me. and the ladies, enjoy but its not direectly from me sha. I am just gona paste it as i got it tho.could be helpful.



Since I’ve dated my neighbor, your brother and everyone in our class, I have noticed some patterns of different age brackets. Obviously, there are exceptions and not every person matures at the same rate, but from my personal experience, there are many similarities across the board for the following age ranges:

Since I’ve dated my neighbor, your brother and everyone in our class, I have noticed some patterns of different age brackets. Obviously, there are exceptions and not every person matures at the same rate, but from my personal experience, there are many similarities across the board for the following age ranges:

Read full gist here: http://www.radar.ng/art-life/women-only-finding-the-right-man-based-on-age-bracket/

"Early 20s
 For boys in their early 20s. They’re so full of life and eager to please. Their bodies are usually in tip-top shape and they just want to bang you all day and night. But, beyond those superficial things, they are incredibly great boyfriends. They make a huge effort to win you over and take you on the most extravagant, creative dates. They haven’t turned cynical yet, so they will love you harder than anyone has or will.
Mid to Late 20s 
These guys are your worst nightmare. They’ve been burned by the girls they thought were the loves of their lives and have probably turned their pain into pleasure by doing whatever the f*ck they want. These are the boys who will have sex with you and not even spend the night. They just “want to have fun” and “hang with the boys,” but still come over late at night for the old in and out. We girls have all been there, too, and these guys are fun if you aren’t looking for anything serious. But, beware of getting attached to these manipulation masters. They always know what to say to keep you coming back. They will whisper sweet nothings into your ear and make you feel like you are the most important girl in the world. But, they are also doing this to a number of other women. Hey, whatever they need to do to get laid on the regular, right? They are constantly sending you mixed signals that will confuse the sh*t out of you if you try to decipher them. 
Early 30s 
These guys are awesome, in theory. They are on the brink of reaching their peaks in life. They are hitting their strides in their careers, coming into their looks, becoming financially stable and are almost at full maturation as men. They are like the sparkly diamonds in the sea of coal. But, it’s very difficult to mine for diamonds. When my friends and I think about guys we’ve dated, not many of them fall into this age bracket. They’re elusive. They’re unicorns. If they aren’t already in relationships, they know they are in a good place and don’t want to wreck it with the complications that relationships bring. They need to focus and buckle down before they can give themselves to someone else, so they are nowhere to be found on the dating market. If you do manage to pin one of these guys down, you are usually constantly clawing for more attention. Be prepared to take a backseat to most other things in his life. 
Mid 30s 
The best men are aged 35 or 36. These guys are fully grown men and ready for something real and lasting. Seriously, no complaints here.
 Late 30s 
If you are an emotional girl, these guys will drive you to the insane asylum. They are in great places in their lives and they want, more than anything else, to share it with a special someone. They are the men who will finally treat you like a desirable woman, take you on nice dinner dates, call you and not make you question whether or not they are interested. However, if you suddenly find yourself coming to the point of taking it to the next level, these guys will distance themselves. They are still making an effort and treating you well, but you have no idea how they feel about you on a deeper level or if they are ready for a bigger commitment. Everything is on the surface. They try to communicate with you and placate your fears, but it’s not enough. They can’t say, “I love you,” ask you to move in or even ask you to be their girlfriend in a timely enough manner for you. They say they want to take their time and be sure because they have been through many relationships that didn’t pan out. They can’t put their hearts on the line just yet. After six-to-eight months of this merry-go-round, an emotional girl will start to freak out from insecurity and end it out of fear.
 Early 40s 
I do not have a ton of experience with men in this age bracket, but the few I have dated are chill. They have learned not to take life too seriously and will go with the flow, no matter what happens. They are never too forceful or eager, but are completely up-front at all times regarding how they feel about you and what they want. These guys definitely know how to take care of you. If you are too young to be dating men of this age, though, it becomes a daddy-issue thing. But, if you are mature enough to handle them, it will probably be the best relationship you’ve ever had. Beware of their all-or-nothing attitude, though, if you aren’t at that same stage in your life. These guys don’t care to mess around, so if you aren’t ready for marriage and kids, I suggest dating in a lower age bracket. Knowing where you are in life is your best mode of operation so you know which age bracket will likely suit you best. If you fall madly in love with someone who isn’t in the bracket you want, then, by all means, follow your heart! Hopefully, this guide will at least help you understand what you are getting yourself into."

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Camdi wia do U fall in?

Unknown said...

do you wana know?

Anonymous said...

Thus is complete hogwash!

Anonymous said...

Yea I do?